Wednesday, March 26, 2008

To another Jeff....

I received an e-mail this morning from Ms. Holly (Claire's teacher) saying that her husband passed away at 12:45 this morning. He was diagnosed in October with Melanoma and now, he's gone. My heart is broken for Holly and their two beautiful little girls. Her blog sheds a lot of light on what a wonderful man he is. I have been inspired by their strength and their faith. They have changed me. I told Holly that because of them, I tend to stop before I get mad about picking up a pile of dirty clothes on Brian's side of the bed. I think twice before I get grumpy about him coming home a little late. Instead, I thank God that I had him here last night to make that mess. I rejoice because he has an amazing job that keeps him busy into the evening and provides us with a roof over our heads and food on the table. I didn't even get upset when that table that holds the food became a canvas for Cohen's recent hobby...fork carving. It puts things into perspective. The endless piles of laundry means I have 3 other beautiful people in this house that dirty them up! The crumbs all over the floor mean we have little hands learning how to use silverware. All of the screeching and laughing means we have a sister and brother in this house who adore each other. I am thankful for every second I get with the people I love. Whether I am playing games with them, coloring, painting, working around the house, watching TV with them, shopping with them, working out with them or sharing a meal. Every person who is in my life is so valuable to me. The Melton's situation has reminded me that we are only guaranteed this very moment on earth. We don't know God's plan and we don't know when he will call us or our loved ones home. Take the time today to pick up the phone and call someone you love just to chat. Spend an extra minute in that embrace before running off to start dinner. Let them splash water on the bathroom floor just for fun. Read an extra bedtime story. Don't turn on the TV this evening. Invite a single mom out for lunch or over for dinner. Wake up each day and ask yourself, "What can I do today to make someone's day special." It doesn't matter if it is your kids, spouse, mother, father, brother, sister, friend or a complete stranger. Just do it. You may not have another chance. If you are the "prayin' kind" please pray for Holly, Ashtyn and Lauren. Pray that they feel the presence of the Lord more than ever right now. Visit their blog and send a positive thought or a Bible verse. Have a blessed day!


Anonymous said...

I feel for their family. I can only imagine how hard it is for them. I always read her blog after I read Coach Phillips since you have a link to the Meltons on Coach's page. The Melton's are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with them in this tough time in their lives.

Auntie Karen said...

Oh My Dearest Chrissy! I am so sorry
to hear about Ms. Holly's husband! But I think that you had told us
he was a believer, so we will see him
again!! I am so proud of you and I can truly see a changed Chrissy!

I love you girl and I am so glad
that you are my niece!!

Auntie Karen

Janell said...

I am so sorry to hear about Mrs. Holly's husband. From reading your blog and Mrs. Holly's blog it sounds like Jeff was an amazing man, husband and father that will be truly missed. I will be praying for her and the girls during this difficult time. May God strengthen their faith and bring them peace.
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own
understanding. Proverbs 3:5